PAS AND THE PROOF POSITIVE. The devices that PAS culprits use.

There are many devices that PAS culprits use. The main one is denial. They deny that they have done anything wrong and they say that the parent has had the opportunity to come and get the child at anytime.

They lie and say that they have an open door policy to the other parent and that the parent has refused to accept their offer. Which is a lie always.

They manipulate the situation by using some form of stronghold, sometimes God or they quote scriptures to support their lie. They can be very religious and they use it as a front.

They play the blame game and they never accept responsibility for their actions. They have brainwashed the child into saying they have no love or need for the other parent, or they train the child to say yes, to throw off the confrontation. However, once the child is with the other parent, they move in for the kill. They have made an attempt to spoil the child.

Religion is very key and is an elemental component to make their situation stand. They have preyed on a person who they know has no support system and is isolated. This is why it is so common to happen immediately after divorce. You two had friends together and now your friends are split. Most of the times, whoever gets the kids, gets to keep the friends also.

They will defame you among your friends and coworkers and everyone will know your business. They will use the child against you and the child will willingly participate, no fault of their own, but they bring the child in as an adult. Most children like to be included in adult conversations. Some children who are victims of PAS are very angry and will lash out at the innocent parent in order to please the culprit.

The culprit of PAS has also managed to earn a reputation for scare tactics and threats that they know that you would be unable to comply with. However, they have no interest in following the rules themselves. But they will consider you the deadbeat unfit parent if you make one mistake.

Many of them drive fancy cars and live in nice homes and they use that as their selling point to support their abuse. Most social workers are impressed by this. They have money and social connections and can call in favors with a close “friend” and they cut through cracks that way. They behave as if they are in a cult. For the most part, that’s what it is for some children. The overpowering will of another human being. Even for a child, this pattern is unacceptable. It is abuse.

 

Above is a list of tactics that are used by many to get you to trust them. They can fool state agencies and police officers, they fool judges, many people are fooled by their appearance.